“You can alter your life by altering your attitude” – James Allen
“Attitude is everything so pick a good one” – Wayne Dyer
Attitude is something that we all have the power to choose and have control over. It is something we can consciously change within us and thereby create significant transformation in our lives. No attitude can continuously be kept alive in your life without your own choosing for it to be so.
And here are the 4 reasons why your attitude is eveything and why it truly matters a lot in your life:
Reason #1. Because everything that you get in life starts with you- with your mood, reactions, perspective and beliefs.
You are at the source of how you experience things in your life. You are painting your life in every moment, by your choice of attitudes and responses. You are the creator and molder of your circumstances through the perspectives and beliefs you choose to carry in life. And before something can be tangible and can manifest in your outer reality, your inner reality of attitude and beliefs must initiate the change. The attitude you’re putting out is what life will mirror back to you, through similar events, circumstances, places and people manifesting around you.
An attitude of success and optimism towards oneself and towards life will allow for new opportunities to be discovered and can create outstanding results for you.
An attitude of being teachable allows for your greatest growth and self development. Looking at everything as a teaching moment widens your perception for the good that is always present.
An attitude of seeing the good in others will help them see the good in you as well. We see others as we are, and when we allow others to be the way they choose, we create freedom for ourselves as well.
An attitude of kindness will gravitate you towards the top. Giving kindness without expecting anything back will create a blessed atmosphere all around you.
Life will always reflect back to you the moods and attitudes you’ve been practicing towards yourself and others. The things you will accomplish in life will be determined by the attitude you choose to perpetuate. Attitude is something you bring with you wherever you go, and thus will always create the atmosphere that surrounds you.
Reason #2. Because your attitude reflects your habits of thought and mindset, which then determines the quality of actions you will take.
How you think determines the consciousness you will bring into your actions. The right attitude inspires the right actions that are geared for happiness and success. Having the right attitude comes from taking responsibility for your own thoughts, which then influences the way you live your life, the kinds of decisions you make, and the habitual things you practice in life. In essence, your attitude eventually determines your outcome.
A negative, fearful, and doubtful attitude will block away positive change, new opportunities and further growth in life. It prevents increasing your capacity to receive more and lets you stay only in your comfort zone.
A bitter attitude will lessen what you allow yourself to experience and will gather momentum toward more hateful thoughts.
An attitude of resisting life as it is now will create a stressful living. Controlling things you do not have control of will create unnecessary misery and agony.
Keeping the right attitude of trust, certainty and peaceful acceptance will attract the right information and knowledge, and will result in harmonious, inspired actions to achieve greater things in life.
Reason #3. Because your attitude determines the way you will see yourself and the way you will view your life.
Your attitude becomes the lens through which you filter the world around you. The way you see and interpret the circumstances you meet in life is determined by your attitude, beliefs and moods. What you believe about yourself and about life is what you will get out of it. When you have the attitude of seeing life as friendly, you will see assistance of all kinds all around you. And when you see it as unfriendly and hostile, you will tune yourself to seeing all kinds of trouble and mishaps to reflect your own attitude and point of view.
4. Because your attitude determines how fulfilled you will become in this lifetime.
In life, it’s not all about what you get, but how you make use of what you get. Your attitudes and perspectives toward the things that come to your experience will determine your happiness or unhappiness. You always get to choose how satisfied or unsatisfied you will be through the attitude you put in to every circumstance you’re in. An attitude of being worry-free and easy about things will result to a satisfying, liberating, good-feeling life. Similarly, adopting an attitude of heaviness and pessimism will create burden and lack of playfulness in everyday living.
Conclusion
Choose cultivating and practicing attitudes that are supportive to your happiness, dreams and success. Deliberately replace those that don’t empower yourself and others. Decide that your attitude in life matters a whole lot, and from now on, you’ll commit to moving towards empowering, successful attitudes that work for the betterment of you. Move to a higher level of happiness in life by maintaining those attitudes that enhance your well-being.
Blessings to you, and namaste!
Iona Kristina 🙂
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