Love that is directed towards oneself is definitely the greatest love there is. Being the energy of love is the key to attracting more of it into your life, be it a relationship that you desire, or more blessings and abundance in all areas of your life.
But how do you maintain the energy of love in you? Here are 7 simple ways on how to love yourself more and be happy, practical tips you can apply to keep the vibration of love alive in your energy field and radiate it at all times.
Tip #1
Spending more time outside, especially in nature, where you feel more connected to your environment and are able to take in the natural beauty that is abundant all around. As you breathe in and focus on what’s beautiful, you activate the energy of love within you.
Being in nature is a good way to relax, meditate and release any negative thoughts in the head. It frees the heart of worries and doubts. It lets you embrace nature’s silence, calmness and peacefulness, and allows love to flow freely inside of you.
Tip #2
Making it a habit to smile often and give thanks to the small things that are going well in your day. Acknowledge and appreciate the good, no matter how small, including the people you meet and interact with. Keeping a journal of the things that you’re grateful for in your day is an effective way of making what’s pleasing active within you.
This feeling of appreciation is equal to the feeling of love. They are essentially the same energy vibration. And as you make it a habit to align with the energy of gratitude, thankfulness, and appreciation, all things loving will be attracted to your experience. Instead of focusing on what is not working, you choose to shift your attention to things that are going well.
Tip #3
Doing the things that you enjoy and feel passionate about. Work on your gifts and pursue your unique purpose. Enjoy yourself where you are now. Whenever you are feeling the most joy and passion, it means you are connected to the core of love within you. You are allowing the free-flowing of love through your whole being, and radiating this energy out that other people take notice.
Doing things you’re passionate about could be as simple as cooking or baking your favorite recipes, playing the guitar or singing in the shower, taking your dog for a walk in the park, watching an inspiring movie, or getting a nice massage. It could also be planning a weekend getaway, going to the beach, improving yourself by taking a short course in photography or creative writing, or anything to treat yourself to something really enjoyable that adds value to your being. Enjoy the season you’re currently in and make yourself feel loved by doing the things that make your soul come alive.
Tip #4
Staying away from arguments, complaining, gossips, and criticism. Participating in these things puts your energy in a low vibration, farther away from love. Thoughts that are of low vibration, including hatred, anger, jealousy and the like, block away the natural flow of positive energies in you.
So instead of reacting to so many different things around you, practice talking only about the things that you like and want, and stay away from the opposite. Speak of compliments and praise, and let go of any hurtful comments that block away the flow of love from within. Prioritize feeling good rather than participating in unnecessary drama, issues or controversies.
Tip #5
Forgiving the past wounds. Make it a habit to drain away any negativity from the past and let go of any unnecessary baggage from things that have long been over. Choose to forgive and free your heart from any heaviness and burden. You deserve to have a clean, pure heart at all times, a heart that is always open to give and receive love.
Let go of any blockages in your heart because you are worthy of feeling good, regardless of what another person has done or however a past experience has affected you. Travel in life with a light and easy heart, and you will be attracting to yourself loving people and loving circumstances of all kinds.
Tip #6
Giving the love to others. What you give out will always come back to you in a similar or even greater manner. Giving creates a vacuum that allows for a receiving of what has been given away. Whenever you give love to others, you are showing to yourself that you have an abundance of love to give away. You are in effect telling yourself that love is already inside of you and you’re choosing to share it to other people.
As you practice giving the love, your heart will feel fuller and your capacity to love will become greater. The more of it you give, the more love and happy you will feel.
Tip #7
Allowing love instead of forcing love. Love is absolute freedom, without any control, possession or manipulation. When you allow love to be freely given and freely received by you, you create a healthy flow of loving relationships in your life. There will be no impatience, no chasing, no worrying that love will not come.
Allowing is trusting that the energy of love emanating from you will take care of attracting the right people and circumstances in your life. You will be in a steady state of calm anticipation and peaceful assurance that you are worthy and deserving of loving things in your life.
Love is Easy, Natural and Present At All Times.
Applying these practical tips in your daily life will surely be easy and will come naturally for you since you already are the energy of love at your deepest core. You just have to allow it to flow through you, around you and outward onto your world. And this love that you give out will definitely come back to you multiplied in a variety of ways, guaranteed.
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Blessings to you, and namaste 🙂
P.S. Here is also a related video on How To Cherish Yourself As A Divine Creation!
